ATA Parents Forum Free to the Public November 3rd

Please join us to discuss Safety in our Schools, businesses and homes, with Officer Chris Cobb of the City of Coppell Police Department. We’ll be discussing standard response protocol for Elementary, Middle and High School, as well as discussing Active shooter Responses in Public Spaces, Businesses and Homes.

Childcare sponsored by Kiddin Around of Coppell. Mention ad and receive $30 registration fee waived and 20% off drop in rate. Spirit of Texas. Free when mentioning ad. Ages 5-over. BOTH must have pre registration and paperwork filed prior to event. Email admin@coppellata.com. Or call 972.462.7807

Seminar located at: Coppell ATA Martial Arts. 110 W Sandy Lake Rd. Ste 160 Coppell.

“Keeping our community safe, one family at a time”

 


WHY SHOULD YOU ENROLL YOUR CHILD IN MARTIAL ARTS??

 

I am a mother of four children, three girls and one boy.  We started our family on our  martial arts journey almost 17 years ago.  We all started for a variety of reasons.  My son who was 5 at the time, wanted to play every sport available to him.  Upon joining the ATA (American Taekwondo Association) it was clear to me from his first class that this was not just another sport.  This was a way of life!!  My second oldest, who didn’t like sports and who was extremely shy and introverted asked to join shortly after watching her brother in class.  My youngest who had just turned 4 was put in for discipline and self control. She was very active and would be diagnosed later with ADHD.  I was the fourth to join.  I was overweight and hated going to the gym.  I immediately fell in love with the exercise, the empowerment it gave me knowing that I could protect myself, and the social interaction with my fellow students.  My oldest was entering middle school and I wanted her to learn to protect herself as she got older.

Even though all our journeys have ended or continued differently, the one thing we have in common is Martial Arts changed our lives forever, in the most positive way possible.

Below is a list of my top 5 reasons to put your child or yourself in our Martial Arts program.

5.  Stranger Awareness and Personal Safety

Becoming more self aware of our surroundings and the dangers that are out there, has help all of us with self esteem and self confidence.  It allowed my children to stand up to bullies in school.  I have the confidence to know that my children have grown up knowing the dangers.  They have learned how to identify them, acknowledge them with a sense of calm and not anxiety, avoid them, and understand that they have the tools to defend themselves if needed.

4.  Goal Setting

Setting goals is a huge way to improve confidence, self reliance, self discipline, and balance in life.  By setting short term goals of getting their next rank, competing in a tournament, learning a new form or weapon, they receive immediate feedback for their dedication and hard work.   By setting long term goals such as getting a State, District or World title, becoming a member of leadership team or instruction staff, or by achieving their black belt and beyond, they learn patience and perseverence. All of these goals have taught us how to improve our memory, coordination, balance, flexibility, memorization, physical fitness, etc.  The list goes on and on.

 

 

3. Physical Fitness

Martial arts provides overall physical activity, that will improve a child’s coordination, balance, posture, fine and gross motor skills and weight issues.  It can increase strength,conditioning and flexibility.  Martial arts uses both sides of the body at the same time, creating a great workout for your child’s mind and body.

2.  Self Esteem and Confidence

Our children are overwhelmed these days with many outside influences that can affect their self esteem and confidence.  From social media, peer pressure, school work, tests, over scheduling, etc.

Martial arts, unlike other conventional sports such as baseball, soccer, and football, is a year round activity.  It allows a child to advance at their own pace, while attending class in a group setting.  It teaches them about setting small goals and working their way up to larger goals.  They learn to be self discipline and focus to achieve their new goals. They learn how to interact with other students, teaching them respect and patience. They learn how to perform under pressure, helping them to understand stress and how to deal with it in a healthy manner.

They learn how to identify bullies.  How to avoid or what to do if they are confronted with bullying, allowing them to have the confidence to do so.

1.  Self Discipline and Respect

By working in a group setting, while setting personal goals, a child will learn to respect authority.  They will learn to respect themselves and others by making good decisions and controlling their behaviors with others. They learn to  self discipline themselves to practice techniques to achieve their short term and long term goals.

These are but a few of the many benefits Martial Arts have helped my children and the many students that have trained with us over the past 12 years.

CALL US TODAY TO SCHEDULE YOUR CHILD’S FIRST MARTIAL ARTS LESSON.

972-462-7807 or visit us at 110 W. Sandy Lake Rd. Ste. 160.  We are located in between Urban Air and Senor Loco’s in the Sprouts shopping center.

Martial Arts and Back To School. How does it help?

How does Martial Arts classes help your child in school?  Martial arts can teach your child a variety of different things. From Self Defense, Exercise, Confidence, Respect, Belief, Goal Setting, Discipline, and communication skills.  Martial arts improves coordination, hand eye timing and fine motor skills.

  • At Coppell ATA we offer leadership courses for kids, in conjunction with their karate for kids programs, or similar lessons.
  • Martial Arts is ideal for children who do not do well in team sports, giving them the ability to flourish this activity, while combining physical and mental practices.
  • Many do not realize this, but it is a fact that martial arts training are safer than most school sports.
  • Children with special needs, such as ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder), learning difficulties and hyperactivity are often recommended to participate in martial arts for kids because of the clear benefits in its structured training techniques

Ending of one Journey…..Beginning of New

DSC_0049Coppell ATA and Karate for Kids opened its doors on March 6th, 2006 with a total of 13 students.  Over the past nine years we have had students come and go and some extremely amazing families continue their journeys with us to this day.  We have had several instructions bless us with their instruction, from 6th Degree Master Earl Shiflett, 5th Degrees Zach Rogers, (now owner of the NRH ATA), 5th Degree Kaitlyn Rogers (now working with the Allen ATA), 5th Degree Mark Sawyer ( now working at the McKinney ATA), 5th Degrees Brett and Jackie Erwin, 5th Degree Dani Kennedy, (special guest from Sustaire’s ATA), Richard Rodriquez (now owner of Rogriquez’s ATA in Highland Village), 4th Degree Durienda Mathis (now working at Southlake ATA), 3rd Degree Sarah Slape (Titterington), and 3rd Degree T.Michael Kennedy.  There are so many Junior Leaders that have helped with classes over the years, that help in any way they can.  They are our true heroes.  We thank each and every Instructor, Junior Instructor and Student who has ever help teach with us.

For all those students and families who have tried a class, done a seminar, come to a birthday party, Kids night out, picnic in the park, supported our tournaments, testings, demonstrations, fitness seminar, bully prevention, school shows, and one of the many events we have done over the years….THANK YOU!!!  Words cannot describe how much  you mean to us and value you and your family.  You have been and will continue to always be a part of our family.

It is bittersweet to leave this home, so many wonderful memories and friendships and connections have been made in these walls.  Some easy, fun and pure joy.  Some hard, painful and disappointing, but all will never be forgotten and make us who will are today and who we will become in the future.  We have all taught and been taught lessons that will continue with us throughout our lives.  For that we are truly grateful and humbled.

So, as we take down the pictures, plaques, certifications, flags, move the equipment and roll up the mat…As we turn off the sign and turn out the lights for the final time, we say not goodbye but see you soon!!!

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As our new home is being built we will try to continue classes with as little interruption as possible at the temporary location.  Please continue to be respectful to our neighbors and park in front of Tuesday morning and come up the elevator or stairs.  We do not want to take away parking from any businesses that are currently there.

Again, we can’t thank you enough for your continued support.  We are so excited about our new journey.

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Sincerely,

Ms. Jackson, Ms. Emily, Ms. Katelyn, Mr. Trace, Ms. Paige, Mr. and Mrs. Erwin, Mr. Kennedy and the entire Junior Instructor team.

What do Rapists Look for in a Victim?

THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES

(PLEASE TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. it may save a life.)

Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Bullying Myths

imagesMyth: Those who bully others are insecure and have low self-esteem.  They pick on others to make themselves feel better about themselves.

Research:  Those who bully others have average or above-average self-esteem.  They often have aggressive temperaments and a lack of empathy.

Want to learn more about bullying – and how to prevent it? Contact us to learn more about our Kidz N’ Power programs and anti-bullying seminars.

 

What are Bully “Hot Spots”?

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Hot spots are those areas where the bullies like to hang out.  They are usually places that an administrator, parent or teacher can not see them clearly.  It is usually areas of transition like hallways, restrooms, playgrounds, etc.  Identifying these areas will help the child to avoid some of the bullying behavior of others.

 

Here are some likely areas of Bullying or harassment:

  • On the way to and from school;
  • Restrooms;
  • Hallways;
  • Classrooms;
  • Gymnasiums;
  • Cafeteria;
  • Playground;
  • Bus stop;
  • Locker rooms
  • On the bus

Attend our Bully Prevention Day, at Jackson’s ATA and Karate for Kids, Thursday, October 10th.

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What is bullying?

 

 

bullyingIn order to address the issue of bullying, it is important to clearly understand how bullying is defined. A commonly used definition developed by Dr. Olweus is

A person is bullied when he or she is exposed, repeatedly and over time, to negative actions on the  part of one or more other persons, and he or she has difficulty defending himself or herself.1

Expressed in more everyday language one might say: Bullying is when someone repeatedly and on purpose says or does mean or hurtful things to another person who has a hard time defending himself or herself.

We will be going over this question and much more at Jackson’s ATA and Karate For Kids Bully Prevention Day, Thursday, October 10th during regular class schedule.  Friends and family members are invited.  See website and bulletin board for further details.  Also check here often for more bullying tips each week.

Back to School and Continuing Martial Arts Training

back_to_school_000021155839_900x675This time of the year, we get the inevitable question of “I don’t know if my child is going to continue his or her training”.  Our concern is our child is starting a new grade or my child is starting school this year and we don’t want to overwhelm them.  Myself being a parent of four children ranging from the ages of 24-15 faced these same questions.  Especially my first child or the child that struggled with school. I have also 14 years of teaching experience.

We have seen the pros and cons of martial arts training and back to school.  We have discovered that children that continue their Martial Arts training actually do better in school and transition better then ones who quit.  Students continue to work on discipline, self-control, self- confidence, respect, goal setting and most important focus. These are all attributes that students need, parents teach and teachers love!!! Maintaining a healthy schedule of work and play also does well for transitions.  Taekwondo class helps relieve stress, continues friendships and a support system and again shows them perseverance.

Please talk to your instructor and share with them your concerns.  Sometimes students may need to come to less classes during the week.  If they are normally coming three to four times or even five times a week, then maybe they should go to two times a week until they transition.  Sometimes it may require just setting up a private lesson here and there to help them keep up with their training during that transition time.  We have several things we can do to help figure out the best approach.  Please consider all options to keep your child training if possible.  Coming back into training is very difficult. They may not want to come back because they will know their friends are higher rank then them, or may feel like they no longer have the ability to keep up.  We are here to help in any way possible.